I took some
time out with my boy Tom today. Well he is not a boy anymore but he is my son
and he is twenty years old. Tom looks like a man but he mostly still acts like
a baby. I have decided that this is the way of modern youth - they are not very
grown up.
It is good to
see Tom though as it has been 6 months since I last laid eyes on him and that
was in Nepal. I took Tom there for his first visit. I thought that it was time
for him to experience the Himalay and it’s beautiful people
Tom works as
an apprentice gardener and he digs and lifts all day in the Sun and sometimes
in the rain. He looks healthy and he looks happy and these are two main
and most important things in life.
Health and
Happiness.
Tom loves his
tattoos and he is all inked up and he is much pierced too. He has many of both
and I don't really mind them. I think that they are just Art and a way of self
expression - even though some mutilation and pain is involved and they are
permanent. I think that they are already a little passé though but what do I
know?
Tom gets a lot
of his tattoos done in Singapore when he visits me as they are a fraction of
the cost of tats back in Oz. Tom goes to a tattoo dude in the Bugis district.
So I shot the
breeze a bit with Tom. We chewed the fat on the deck after our dinner. This was
a good thing for youth move fast today and they move far and wide. Teenage
children are like shadows in the night - they are out there somewhere.
Tom told me he
had a new girlfriend and her name is Cassie but he calls her Cass. He told me
that he now spent a lot of time with her. Most of his time in fact.
I told him
that I thought this was good and I asked Tom whether she was nice and what made
her special.
Tom replied
without hesitation that she was nice and that she was special.
When I asked why
she was nice and special Tom told me that they completed each other's
sentences. He told me that much of the time he and Cass knew what each other
was thinking.
I thought this
was nice - potentially very annoying down the track - but it was really nice
never the less and I said as such to Tom.
When I asked
Tom whether he thought that Cass thought the same of him said that he was unsure.
Tom was a little uncertain. So I suggested that perhaps after a while Tom could
tell Cass about our conversation and he could tell her that he really liked her
a lot.
If she asked
why he could simply say "It is because we complete ...."
If she
immediately cuts in and says, ".....each other's sentences" then
that would be a very good thing indeed.
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